Re: Husband insecure about the way I dress
Zombie thread? Who cares, still relevant to anybody searching for this topic. The questions and responses don't have a best-before date. Not sure why people get worked up over this sort of thing, unless they're expecting more info from the OP or something.
In any case, ex wife used to dress pretty frumpy pre-gym rat days. Baggy sweaters, looser fit jeans, etc. Once she got fit, it was low-cut, tight-fitting jeans, low-cut, tight-fitting shirts, push-up bras, etc. And a LOT of time spent on makeup and hair, even just to go to the store. Didn't bother me one bit, she looked good, TBH. But it went to her head, and she relished the attention she got from it - so much so that she'd even tell me all about it... sigh.
But there's a difference between her and what OP said, IMO. OP seems like she always dressed like that, and doesn't do it for the attention - she simply likes clothes. It also doesn't sound like she dresses all that 'sexy', anyway - she just dresses for her body type, and how she likes.
It's a double-edged sword, if you ask me. If it's clearly being done to 'show off', then it's an issue. If your wife/girlfriend likes clothing and dresses for her body, then chill out. You don't own her, and if it makes you uncomfortable, the problem is with you, not her. If her resulting M.O. or ensuing ACTIONS make you uncomfortable, that's another story.
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