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Old 06-23-2009, 01:05 PM   #16 (permalink)
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On first impression?

Curly.

But right after that? How nice a person they are to be around.

Are they genuinely interested and interesting.

Openness to experiences.

Do they like to have fun? Are they aware of the world and not cynical?

BTW, no matter the hair style, does it take more than 30 minutes to achieve it?
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:40 PM   #17 (permalink)
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If your basing attraction to someone and chemistry with them upon if their hair is curley or straight

all I can say is wow and I think your really going about dating the wrong way.

I read some crazy stuff on the forums for sure but this strsaight or curley hair and first impressions takes the cake...
going to go read my book now as this is more than I can take today
and its still only morning
You find curly vs straight attraction dumb. You find men who love sex with their wife emotionally immature.

However, the rest of us find worrying about broken hamburgers petty and insecure.

So to each their own I guess.

To answer the question, I think my wife's hair can look stunning both straight and wavy/curly. She is dark blonde with natural light blonde highlights, and then she also puts some more highlights in there (some blonde, some red) at times. That straight done right is stunning.

However, she also at times will get a perm and it will stay wavy (not really curly) for awhile, and that is also stunning.

So to me it all depends as well.

I know for brunettes I think I prefer curly more often than not, for blondes I like both straight and curly.
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:53 PM   #18 (permalink)
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BTW, no matter the hair style, does it take more than 30 minutes to achieve it?
Love it!

Most of you have hit on the main theme--first impressions and our subconscious minds at work. Glad some of us are having fun with the topic......
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:55 PM   #19 (permalink)
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I think you should post a Picture of yourself with Curly hair, then a picture with straight hair and let us judge which is better.
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Old 06-23-2009, 02:23 PM   #20 (permalink)
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If your basing attraction to someone and chemistry with them upon if their hair is curley or straight

all I can say is wow and I think your really going about dating the wrong way.

I read some crazy stuff on the forums for sure but this strsaight or curley hair and first impressions takes the cake...
going to go read my book now as this is more than I can take today
and its still only morning

I'm normally a very quiet and peaceful person, but I have reached my limit with you sweetie. If you don't like the threads I post, then stay out of them! Personally, as far as first impressions go, I dislike negative people who know no boundaries.

Not only have you crossed the line in my threads, what you posted in the "girly girl" thread is appalling. Oh, hair doesn't matter with first impressions, but weight does! Oh, appearances don't matter, but a person's weight certainly matters to you. So, in other people's posts we can't discuss first impressions, but you can in your posts. I feel sorry for the "old friend from 6th grade". I'm sure someone loves her despite her weight!

Chris & Moderators, I'm sorry for this type of posting. I finally reached my breaking point here. This is a great forum and I hate to see one person discourage others. We should be here to enjoy other people's company and offer encouragement--and even constructive criticism. Don't think this forum was set up for one person to "dog" another person to death with negativity. Sorry y'all--I'll go crawl back under my rock now!
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Old 06-23-2009, 02:34 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Country Girl I think you post is fine and you have the right to feel that way.
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Old 06-23-2009, 02:38 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I think you should post a Picture of yourself with Curly hair, then a picture with straight hair and let us judge which is better.
That might be a fun activity when I come out from under the rock!
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Old 06-23-2009, 04:58 PM   #23 (permalink)
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BTW, no matter the hair style, does it take more than 30 minutes to achieve it?
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Love it!

Most of you have hit on the main theme--first impressions and our subconscious minds at work. Glad some of us are having fun with the topic......
Just sayin'....
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Old 07-18-2009, 05:26 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Straight is better, all day, all night, almost everytime.
Very few women look good with curly hair.
Some slight waves can be alright.
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Old 07-22-2009, 11:23 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Personally I have a thing for redheads, long straight red hair. My wife is a brunette, short black hair.... and she is the most beautiful woman Ive ever met.

Most men wont care about hair color, I know that I loved women, didnt matter what color hair, how tall or short, big or small... I just loved women. Now I love one woman ;-)

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Old 07-25-2009, 09:27 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Well, my husband prefers my naturally wavy hair to when I straighten it. The elements seem to prefer is wavy too, since when it's straight, they sure attack!
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Old 08-03-2009, 03:42 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I dont care, as long as the carpet matches the drapery's.
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Old 08-03-2009, 04:37 PM   #28 (permalink)
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straight with a great sence of humour ..and can laugh at the most crazy things .. who enjoys time in and out of the bed and forgives without questions and cooks ,cleans and takes care of our children .... fantastic personality defo seals the deal


Well you aren't asking for much are you...LOL
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:15 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Glad you are enjoying the tread L & C. Not to worry, I'm out from under my rock. I just patiently sit and watch the world go by now while siting on top of my rock. I gave up on dating, so I'm sure I can find plenty of things to keep some of us entertained with...... Besides this forum is far more stimulating than my dates were. But, I still had a lot of fun with the curly vs. straight on the dating sites. Just for the record I had better luck with the straight hair. However, my hair is naturally curly and I'm most comfortable with it.
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