02-24-2013, 07:53 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: Please Share Advice- 2nd Wife (Soon)
Originally Posted by LookingForHelpwithTakeTwo
Apologies for reaching out and i am still new and nervous about using this kind of post - i am 50 and not experienced, but need help and advice.
This is my second marriage (and 2nd for her) which will happen in about 3 months - however i have some issues, including:
* her kids (she has 3) and my guy (I have one - he is awesome) are very different - her kids are elite - my son is a great kid but not elite.
* our relationship is very, very good, but i think that ultimately she wants a hot young stud (I am not bad, but i am old, and my belly is growing, and i am balding) - how can i satisfy a woman at 50? or should i even try?
Sorry to dump this on you gents. Hey if any of you has a similar experience or good advice, please share.
How old is your wife? What's your relative financial situation (who's bringing more to the relationship in terms of money and resources)? Why is your "belly growing"? And how hot is she relative to you? Will all the kids be with both of you full time? Do they get along ok? How old are all the kids? Have you looked at the issues of merging families? How long have you been seeing each other?
My thoughts... If you're not going to try to satisfy your wife, don't bother getting married. You better fill her needs, or someone else will. This means working at looking your best for her, as well as both of you enjoying your sex life.
As far as the kids go, merging families together can often be difficult. You need to talk about how that's going to work, and do some reading/research about best ways to make it happen.