Re: How do you deal with jealousy?
I just be as honest as I can.... even when it torques my wife. I go over my own boundaries as well or even specific ones for that OP who happens to be hot and I'm attracted to. Worse thing I can do is start hiding that I’m attracted, because that leads to omitting, then hiding. Stop it dead in it’s tracks. “Yes honey, she’s smart, witty, smoking hot, etc. Here is how I resist her _______.” I do not try and convince my wife that my wife is hotter, smarter, wittier, etc. than this other girl. I reassure her that I chose her even as f’d up as she is. She is my lunatic. Then I just let my wife rage on in jealous fits with a stupid look of “you are so cute when you think I’m gonna get some...” I sort of enjoy those moments instead of getting upset or mad about it.