Looking at women
Dear married men, I am an unmarried man trying to understand my own feelings as I contemplate how to handle a proposal ultimatum from my girlfriend.
When a woman passes by who I find at least somewhat attractive, I follow her with my gaze. Hoping, I think, to make eye contact, or maybe just to see whether she is as attractive as I thought she was at first glance. Not inspecting her butt or anything, but I want to know if she has a pretty face.
Sometimes, I find myself doing this even when I am with my girlfriend.
Is this a bad sign? Or is this a "reflex" you experience in spite of your happy marriage, and just part of being a warm-blooded man?