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Old 08-16-2009, 11:08 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I am a newly married man here. I have been married for about 3 months now....and I find myself staring at other women's boobs all the time. Do any of you guys out there have this "problem"? Ladies, do you know we are looking at your boobs?
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Old 08-17-2009, 01:01 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Heya...From a woman's perspective here...
I LOOOOOOVE asses! Especially small ones! Yes, I DO look at other asses, even though I'm married! I figure no harm done, because I'm not off to find someone to cheat with. (heck, I'm completely straight, and even appreciate a nice butt or boobs on a woman!)
I also figure I should do nothing to make my husband feel bad either...So if I see a nice "sight" while I'm with him, I just casually look....Don't OGLE, and don't mention another person's nice "features" in front of your spouse.
Yes, I do know men love boobs! I don't even mind men staring at them! (Mine are quite large, and I've always got attention from men from them, but have never minded. I know other women who hate being looked at there, though.)
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Old 08-17-2009, 01:15 AM   #3 (permalink)
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if we are wearing something low cut, then yes, we definitely know. when i first got married i would hate it when i would catch the husband oggling. now i'm fine with it because i know nothing will come out of looking at someone walking by. it's like the eyes just tend to naturally go to those areas.in my opinion it's just human nature to check out the opposite sex(or whatever sex you prefer).
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Old 08-17-2009, 07:32 AM   #4 (permalink)
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perfectly normal, I look at the whole package though and I will comment to my wife, that is a very goo looking woman. She is pretty etc.

My wife Also can comment to me on me, he is handsome, etc.

We are comfortable in our marriage that we know neither will get jealous over an observation.
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Old 08-17-2009, 11:20 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Wife and I used to talk about the other sex. We were fine with it.
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Old 08-17-2009, 11:24 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Yes, we know when they are being stared at. Some women get offended, some don't. Mine are rather large and perky, so they get stared at a lot; it does not bother me or my H at all. I like boobs, and can appreciate a nice set myself. As long as my H is not tripping over himself staring at some girl or saying totally obscene things, I could care less about him looking. If its done in a totally tactless way, thats a different story.
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Old 08-17-2009, 02:09 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I look, but don't leer. There is a difference.

BTW, there are a significant number of women that like having their boobs looked at. And if they think you stole a peek, they make sure you get a better look.
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Old 08-17-2009, 02:53 PM   #9 (permalink)
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What? He's just there cuz he loves their hot wings
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What? He's just there cuz he loves their hot wings
Yup! That's why most guys go there.
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Old 08-17-2009, 03:34 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I catch my wife stareing at boobs alot more than she catches me.

We are good about it though, we even go to the titty bar together whenever we have the money.
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I catch my wife stareing at boobs alot more than she catches me.
Ok, I've got one for that too. Only old guys like me would be able to name those two ladies. Oh back in the days of naturally endowed women.



OBTW, I like to catch a glance also and my wife doesn't seem to mind. I am a boob guy. She is small breasted but I wouldn't trade her for the world.
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Old 08-17-2009, 05:01 PM   #13 (permalink)
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i too look at the whole package, from the rump first
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Old 08-17-2009, 06:58 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I notice women's boobs:

1) If they are huge and half way to the waist and need a bra BADLY because I imagine "Holy Cow" those are going to be in really sad shape in a few years...

2) If they are fake. Some plastic surgeons need to be shot because oranges under the skin look terrible and I can't imagine why that is attractive to anyone.

3) When circuit breakers are popped.

4) When a woman has nice ones naturally; like when a person has nice hair, or nice skin, or a nice purse, car, etc.

JUST like I notice when a pair of Levis coming or going are just tight enough to make my mind go blank a second

Oh, my.
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I notice women's boobs:

JUST like I notice when a pair of Levis coming or going are just tight enough to make my mind go blank a second

Oh, my.
and it's that brief moment of confusion men live for.
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