I am a newly married man here. I have been married for about 3 months now....and I find myself staring at other women's boobs all the time. Do any of you guys out there have this "problem"? Ladies, do you know we are looking at your boobs?
Heya...From a woman's perspective here...
I LOOOOOOVE asses! Especially small ones! Yes, I DO look at other asses, even though I'm married! I figure no harm done, because I'm not off to find someone to cheat with. (heck, I'm completely straight, and even appreciate a nice butt or boobs on a woman!)
I also figure I should do nothing to make my husband feel bad either...So if I see a nice "sight" while I'm with him, I just casually look....Don't OGLE, and don't mention another person's nice "features" in front of your spouse.
Yes, I do know men love boobs! I don't even mind men staring at them! (Mine are quite large, and I've always got attention from men from them, but have never minded. I know other women who hate being looked at there, though.)
if we are wearing something low cut, then yes, we definitely know. when i first got married i would hate it when i would catch the husband oggling. now i'm fine with it because i know nothing will come out of looking at someone walking by. it's like the eyes just tend to naturally go to those areas.in my opinion it's just human nature to check out the opposite sex(or whatever sex you prefer).
Yes, we know when they are being stared at. Some women get offended, some don't. Mine are rather large and perky, so they get stared at a lot; it does not bother me or my H at all. I like boobs, and can appreciate a nice set myself. As long as my H is not tripping over himself staring at some girl or saying totally obscene things, I could care less about him looking. If its done in a totally tactless way, thats a different story.