03-02-2010, 11:35 AM
Join Date: Sep 2009
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Previous marriage my sexdrive was 10 times higher than my ex. She was against porn, masturbation (though probably assumed I did it), and was not a very sexual person. As the marriage progressed, her and I drifted apart more and more and the need for release was overwhelming, so I took care of business. Let me add, it was not nor has ever been my desire to do it, it was just needed. Woman need to understand this isn't anything to do with them so much (assuming they are offended by it), its just we need it. So if we can't have that release with our partner then we need to get it ourselves. I would rather have my partner than myself only though. My current wife has a much higher sex drive, and she prefers I don't so I honestly don't or seldom do. And when I do need it, I tell her I do, and she actually gets involved. I can say that I have only done it 3 times in the past year. Last night in fact, but she is recovering from a surgery so she actually can't have sex right now and we may be another month out before she can. So if I have a build up, usually 3-5 days max before I am mentally climbing the walls, I will tell her I need some and she gets involved. I prefer her to get me off than doing it myself. It's not that I don't dislike it, heck I can get the job done in a heart beat as I know my stuff and hit it just right, but it's just way more pleasurable with her involved.
Now what I would like to honestly know from woman is why not swallow, or spit after your man cums from a BJ. How can a girl eat raw oysters and yet can't prevent gagging from a mouth full after a BJ? That I don't get, and I know my wife could sit on me and I would love every drop, if you know what I mean. Sorry my mind is starting to get lost.....time for a bathroom break! JK
edit: just wanted to clarify about my current wife, she is into the idea of masturbation but not solo. She hasn't done it yet herself but has always wanted to. So at some point soon we will make this a part of our sex life with each other and it would be just another form of foreplay.