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Old 09-20-2009, 07:55 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Just curious here. How many men here will admit that they matsterbate. And if so do you tell your spouse about it? Do you use porn as a means of accomplishing this? I'm new here, so I'm not sure if a thread like this is allowed. If it's not my apologies.
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Old 09-20-2009, 08:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I do ..for reasons I have explained on previos threads ..Porn always helps , Yes my spouse is aware of this ,however I am a grown Adult and she is far from my mother ..lol..she doesnt mind I've caught her More than once watching it ..
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Old 09-20-2009, 08:17 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I do ..for reasons I have explained on previos threads ..Porn always helps , Yes my spouse is aware of this ,however I am a grown Adult and she is far from my mother ..lol..she doesnt mind I've caught her More than once watching it ..
Well we have one taker. Thanks for your imput. And no need to explain why you do. I was just simply curious to see how many men will admit to it.
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Old 09-20-2009, 10:36 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I have a hard time believing that there's a man alive who doesn't from time to time at one point or another. If these men exist, they're few and far between. H said he did about a month or so ago.

My thoughts exactly!
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Old 09-20-2009, 11:57 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I have only because it was so long inbetween when my wife and I last made love. I have a hard time getting into, but I also need to use a device of some sort (porn).

Why do women, can you answer me that? I just recently learned my wife does, and she is not a very intimate person. Any thoughts there. She says 2 times a month.
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What do you mean, why do women? Why would it be any different for men than women? Masturbation isn't about intimacy.

I'm curious as to why you "need" to use porn.

My H stopped doing it alone because of some performance issues. However, he'll do it with me so he hasn't necessarily stopped. He just allows me to share in the fun. :-)
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Old 09-21-2009, 12:16 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I have a hard time believing that there's a man alive who doesn't from time to time at one point or another. If these men exist, they're few and far between. H said he did about a month or so ago.
Inasmuch as I believe this was directed at me, I will answer it under the 51 year married thread...It will go off Topic here...
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Old 09-21-2009, 12:20 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I would love for my wife to share in the fun!! However I have not always been so lucky. I used it for a long time as a stress reliever. I much rather be intimate with my wife then be by myself!

Hell I would love for my spouse to masterbate together! We have several times and it is a ton of fun!

I am a very visual person that is the reason. If I had some photos of my signifciant other I would use those!
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Old 09-21-2009, 12:28 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Using masturbation as a stress-reliever IMO, can lead to over-use and eventual problems. That's a warning I'd pass along.

I remember the first time waking up to my H masturbating. It was absolutely such a thrill!
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I am someone that absorbs a lot of stress each day. I am the one that everyone kind of dumps their frustrations on, and I hold on to a lot of stuff. I have learned to absorb quite a bit before I consider myself to be stressed. As long as my wife are intimate I am able to relieve quite a bit of my daily stress by making love to her. So... if it has been 3 weeks or so (which as happened quite a bit over the last several years) I will masterbate. I only do this once a month or so. It is just to boring! I have a hard time getting into it most times. I have been pretty fortunate to be in a sexual relationship most of my adult life so it was never a real need.

Okay, this is supposed to anwering a particular question. I apologized this got off track.

Maybe once a month. I have upto 3 times a month depending on the intimacy between me and my spouse.
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Last OT post -- your use doesn't seem excessive.
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Old 09-21-2009, 12:42 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I am not sure what OT is, but I am glad. I am not big into masterbating. I am a square 32 and I am not big into all of the IMO & OT. I had to look up the IMO thing. I am really a 65 man in a 32 many body
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OT - Off-topic. I don't think masturbation has much to do with how hip or square someone is. I bet there are a lot of 65 year olds who masturbate to beat the band. <g>
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Old 09-21-2009, 12:56 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I was refering to the OT, and IMO in regards to my age versus the masterbation topic.

I also have to rythm I think that might be part of the problem. Not only am I old, but I am old white man with an over bite.
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Old 09-21-2009, 01:22 AM   #15 (permalink)
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I do it, Probably daily, I have a very high Libido, my wife does as well. She also Masturbates when I am not home, her "toy" sits pluggeed in next to our bed.

I don't need porn, usually my vivid imagination is the key,and often it is of my wife in situations she would never do.

I also like to look at our "home" movies.

She uses her toy usually to certain TV shows, the Mentalist is one of them, she loves that guy also her soap, forgot the name.

I find it very healthy and good, on a side note, we basically have sex daily as well, the masterbation usually happens when one of us is not home, otherwise we are rolling around ont he floor.

I also agree, that 100% men do this, those who say they don't are lying. I would say about 60% of women do, the 40% that don't should try it, and they will forever be happy.

My wife never did it until she bought me a back massager and I used it on her, it became hers after that, now she has upgraded to the Magic wand.
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