Re: Butlins adult theme weekends - wife going
What the f**k is it about these women? They think they can do whatever they want, regardless of how TOTALLY inappropriate, just because they tell you first? Nice to tell you, but you WON'T BE THERE!!
Here's the deal, man. My wife of 7 years, mother of my 2 children, got our second baby off of the breast, got in shape, and was out the door fast and hard. What could I say? It was just dancing with a girlfriend. But after much advice from folks on this board, I felt comfortable puttign a stop to it. And let me tell you, between what LITTLE she wold tell me, truth and lies, I put together a picture of a hard partying bar girl. Just "dancing" was a LIE. She was fooling me into thinking I would "unenlightened" to have a problem with her activity that ANY OTHER husband in the world would have put a stop to immediately.
Go on the internet. Google "singles vacations" or "singles cruises". Print out some literature. It's been a while, but "Hedonism" of "Hedonism II" would be good. Hand them to her and say"sorry you want to take separate vacations. I like going with you, but if it's what you want, we'll do it. I'm narrowing it down to these choices".
SHE CAN'T GO. And you are WELL within your rights to stop her..