Re: Anyone ever think of trying out one of those "Have an Affair" online sites?
I have often advocated saying something like this:
When you know that I need sex to feel loved, and when you deny that to me, and yet tell me that you love me, it is hard for me to believe you. When you know what I need to be happy and you consistently deny me that, it is unreasonable for you to expect me to be faithful.
Now I suppose that is an awful, scumbagish thing to say. Almost as bad as I'm getting a divorce because you won't have sex with me.
The fact is you are sex starved. The old saying is true A relationship with sex and no marriage will last longer than a relationship with marriage and no sex. So unless there is some reasonable reason that you can't enjoy sex together, it really is time to consider ultimatums like filing for divorce.
About the affair websites. Like you I am by nature a faithful guy. To me (and I expect you) Sex is a part of my relationship with my Wife. Fling, or no strings sex would not be able to replace emotionally connected in a trusting relationship sex. I know that this is not true for many people, I just don't understand it.