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Old 01-07-2010, 04:55 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Everything is going great with me and my wife. But, we had DCF called on us again by her brother. This is the 4th or 5th time he has called on us. Nothing has ever been substaintiated. Is there anything that we could do to stop this constant harassment?? Anyone ever had this problem??
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Old 01-27-2010, 07:46 AM   #47 (permalink)
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I think this is the longest time since you have posted. How is it going for you now? Is the time between posts a reflection of anything about the relationship?
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Old 02-07-2010, 11:52 AM   #48 (permalink)
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We were making real progress, then she hit a brick wall. She wants things to be as they were before the admission of guilt. I want more out of our relationship, and not what we had!! What we had led to her betrayal of our relationship. This last DCF call has driven us apart. I still am trying 110%, and she tries when it is convienent for her?? I need to see her commitment to this family. We are slowly sliding backwards??
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Old 02-08-2010, 09:25 AM   #49 (permalink)
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Have you sat down with her whole family and discussed what BIL is doing?
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Old 02-09-2010, 01:30 AM   #50 (permalink)
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I find it interesting that you often use question marks after statements. Is this because you have some doubt about the statements you are making? Or because you have more questions or perhaps for another reason?


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Old 02-14-2010, 01:20 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Happy valentines day to all. I think that my marriage is unfixable. My wife is unwilling to try to helps us. She cant pay the bills on time? She continually wastes money on things we dont need, but forgets the neccessities. I am thinking of asking her to leave. I will never trust her. She keeps breaking my heart.
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