So I come to this site as a married woman considering seperation/divorce vs. continuing in my marriage. If I stay in this marriage, it is basically a marriage on paper only it seems. We have been limping along for the last 5-6 years of our 15 year marriage (as of midnight tonight, our anniversary). We have 2 young children who will be effected by either decision I/we make. I hope with advice I get here and IRL I can come to the right decision for my family...
What I suggest is that you start a thread in the General Discussion forum. That's the most active forum and the one that fits your situation.
Until you are 100% sure of the direction you want to take, I think that working on the marriage and on yourself is the only reasonable thing to do.
There are two books that might help you: "Love Busters" and "His Needs, Her Needs".
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