Last I looked, they were together and expecting a baby girl. IIRC, they're in couples counseling and considering marriage in the future.
I haven't been to check your thread since Thanksgiving. I got triggered.
LSS, my mother's brother was a gay man. My "step father" (they were together 18 years, but never married) was a homophobe back in the day. My Uncle lived out of state and wasn't allowed over to visit if his partner was with him and dad wanted him around in a very limited way. My mom fought bitterly with him over it, but she was disabled, unemployable, and had 3 young kids, so our interaction with Uncle was not as much as it could have been and mostly done in secret via phone and letter.
When my mother died, my dad basically disappeared with us and kept us from contact with my gay uncle and my mothers other brother, too. They were the last of my blood family other than a two siblings and a few cousins. Cousins I also missed out on having in my life.
My hetero uncle looked for us for 17 years before he found us. He has cancer and has been battling it for 8 years. My gay uncle passed away some years back. I wonder if Uncle thought we didn't love him, if he missed us, if he thought about us, if he was hurting over it all when he was approaching the end of his life...
The comments about Ally made by J's family made me want to throat punch people. I had to avoid the thread for a bit. Sorry, man.