Join Date: Sep 2016
Location: Northern California
Hi Everyone, I've been trolling around here a while and decided I better introduce myself here.
First, my username: NothingsOriginal speaks to my belief that every problem, roadblock, challenge or whatever you want to call it is not being experienced by a human for the first time when it hits me. Knowing that, I am confident that I can reach out to others (like TAM) to find out how others have dealt with those things. As payback I tend to contribute once in a while when I think I have experienced something that will help others.
I have been an admin of several forums in the past (so I know the basic rules) but don't really enjoy it.
I found TAM by googling "sexless marriage" when I was feeling sorry for myself one day a few months ago. Some of the threads I read here were heart breaking, but in a way have helped me self diagnose some of what's happening at my house, and energized me to attempt fixing at least what is in my control. My original perception was that it was all on the wife's side (medical), but learned here that an awful lot of it is that when it was definitely medical I gave up, and it is time for me to rekindle things. For that I am already thankful for finding this place.
Is there a guide someplace to all of the abbreviations and acronyms used here? On some threads I get lost when the SAHM has an OM on the side, or the kids are named D17 and S21.
Last edited by NothingsOriginal; 10-06-2016 at 05:28 PM.