Join Date: Sep 2016
Location: Northern California
Re: new member
I understand that you don't know what to do, but here are some things to help you be on the right track.
1)Take care of yourself. Eat healthy, stay hydrated, get sleep. This is #1 for a reason, you can't do anything else without it.
2) Lawyer up. You need to know all of your rights and obligations, because you can't be starting over from scratch at this stage in life.
3) Get your financial house in order. Even if he pays the bills (you didn't mention that) you need to get your arms around where you are.
4)If you even suspect that he had sexual contact with you after he started with her, go get tested for STDs right away. Your regular Dr. can do it for you.
5) Speaking of starting over, since he stayed 46 years I can only guess that you are a lovable person. My Mom remarried at age 78. Don't fear the future, run towards it.
Last edited by NothingsOriginal; 10-28-2016 at 09:47 AM.