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post #1 of 4 (permalink) Old 01-10-2017, 06:11 PM Thread Starter
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Feeling very sexy lately !!

I'm feeling rather sexy lately but I have a husband that pays no attention. Is this normal after 29 years of marriage? I have told him how I feel and how dissatisfied I am with our sex life. I talk to him express what I would do to him to make him happy, what I would like done to me and he responds with a sounds great via texting. When he gets home from work I don't get a kiss a hug anything. I really think there is something wrong with him. Most men would love to have a wife that wants a lot of sex. Not mine it is so sad to me. I am offended and angry that he just doesn't get it. Is it selfish of me to want more than he is offering ? I actually get mad that he is not into me. Please tell me if this is normal.

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Re: Feeling very sexy lately !!

Was he always fairly low desire, or is this a recent change?

Any medical / health / weight problems for either of you?

It isn't talked about much but there are a fair number of men with very little interest in sex.
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post #3 of 4 (permalink) Old 01-10-2017, 06:28 PM Thread Starter
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Re: Feeling very sexy lately !!

He has been less into it than myself. Neither of us have any health issues or are on any medication. Both are healthy with no weight issues. It's almost a dense factor with him. I am 5 years younger than him going through menopause. I am really into sex but always have been. He says he is to but only when he wants to have it. He has always been a selfish lover with me. He had an affair about 9 years ago but we worked through it for the most part. I kind of still feel hurt about some things but I try to not dwell on that.
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Re: Feeling very sexy lately !!

Has he ever had his T levels checked? Mine crashed despite being young(ish) (ok, well I still FEEL young, lol) and in excellent shape, weight, health etc.
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