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post #16 of 20 (permalink) Old 03-07-2017, 10:30 PM Thread Starter
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HA! Yeah, we're still functioning......But we won't discuss that...
But Dearie, when you boil the meat from the bone, separate the chaff from the wheat, the man from his foibles, it is "THAT" which the worth lays nestled in.

It is the tender moments, the hugs and the kisses and the intimate moans and guttural grunts that hold the marriage together.

Why else a man and a woman live?

The rest?

Mere window dressing. Dainty table cloth's for the in-laws and grandchildren to view.

Big debts in your marriage?

The real debts are to each other. Him for loving a hard women and you for forgiving his eager dreams, not realized.

The man blew his bank roll on a truck. A foolish error, yes, but one connected to his profession.

For example: A carpenter buys tools, a van and maybe a Fixer-upper. He works his tail off on the house. In it, he puts in more worth than he can get out of it. He ends up with no serious buyers. He goes bankrupt. These things are dreams and as dreams be, some never materialize.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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But Dearie, when you boil the meat from the bone, separate the chaff from the wheat, the man from his foibles, it is "THAT" which the worth lays nestled in.

It is the tender moments, the hugs and the kisses and the intimate moans and guttural grunts that hold the marriage together.

Why else a man and a woman live?

The rest?

Mere window dressing. Dainty table cloth's for the in-laws and grandchildren to view.

Big debts in your marriage?

The real debts are to each other. Him for loving a hard women and you for forgiving his eager dreams, not realized.

The man blew his bank roll on a truck. A foolish error, yes, but one connected to his profession.

For example: A carpenter buys tools, a van and maybe a Fixer-upper. He works his tail off on the house. In it, he puts in more worth than he can get out of it. He ends up with no serious buyers. He goes bankrupt. These things are dreams and as dreams be, some never materialize.
I know, that's why I'm here..To get some perspective so I can be at peace with it and help him now that he's done it. His getting the truck isn't the only reason I started having panic attacks, it was just the straw that broke the camels (me) back. I give him credit for carrying me through the last two years of me being essentially mentally disabled.
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I know, that's why I'm here..To get some perspective so I can be at peace with it and help him now that he's done it. His getting the truck isn't the only reason I started having panic attacks, it was just the straw that broke the camels (me) back. I give him credit for carrying me through the last two years of me being essentially mentally disabled.
I too, do this.....carry my panic prone spouse.

In her mind, it is her little form and her skinny arms that carry me. But as SunCMars, I can easily carry an anxious women.

But I cannot carry myself. So heavy be my desire. An unrealized desire that will someday collapse under its own weight.

Age does not kill desire. It converts it to useless steam.

The End of Life cannot be Buyers Remorse. For no one purchases their own form and their own {right to a happy life} permit, oft coming with a limited purpose clause.

Our Shell is always a Gift.....take it or leave it.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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That's the thing though, I had NEVER had a panic attack till 2 years ago..Ever...This "thing" has turned my whole life upside down.

2 years before this, I worked, functioned, the whole bit. I've always been high strung, but this....Knocked me for a loop.

Just too much stuff happening in too little a time frame I think.
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