HA! Yeah, we're still functioning......But we won't discuss that...
But Dearie, when you boil the meat from the bone, separate the chaff from the wheat, the man from his foibles, it is "THAT
" which the worth lays nestled in.
It is the tender moments, the hugs and the kisses and the intimate moans and guttural grunts that hold the marriage together.
Why else a man and a woman live?
Mere window dressing. Dainty table cloth's for the in-laws and grandchildren to view.
Big debts in your marriage?
The real debts are to each other. Him for loving a hard women and you for forgiving his eager dreams, not realized.
The man blew his bank roll on a truck. A foolish error, yes, but one connected to his profession.
For example: A carpenter buys tools, a van and maybe a Fixer-upper. He works his tail off on the house. In it, he puts in more worth than he can get out of it. He ends up with no serious buyers. He goes bankrupt. These things are dreams and as dreams be, some never materialize.