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09-11-2015 12:05 AM
Augusto
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

OK....he may have blood relation but he is NOT your brother!!! Who dug up this thread?
09-10-2015 07:04 PM
warshaw
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by Harken Banks View Post
I'm in the camp of it depends on the nature and severity of the infraction.
How severe the cheating is?

About the only difference could be the size of the guys penis.
09-10-2015 06:43 PM
Harken Banks
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by warshaw View Post
No way. Cheaters don't deserve anything.

Its perfectly ok to kick them to the curb after the first transgression, they are owed nothing.
I'm in the camp of it depends on the nature and severity of the infraction. In many cases I think it can take some time to sort that out. Also I am in the camp of those in Texas who have said as I am told "Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice . . . [long pause] . . . well you can't get fooled again."
09-10-2015 06:23 PM
happy as a clam
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by carmen ohio View Post


ZOMBIE THREAD!!!
Ba ha ha!! Love it!
09-10-2015 06:18 PM
warshaw
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by sunflower View Post
everone deserves a second chance .
No way. Cheaters don't deserve anything.

Its perfectly ok to kick them to the curb after the first transgression, they are owed nothing.
09-10-2015 02:04 PM
carmen ohio
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother



ZOMBIE THREAD!!!
09-10-2015 10:07 AM
Harken Banks
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

In the only cases of this I know about the other brother has repeated interactions with his brother's wife or SO. First wife, second wife, girl friend. What have you. That seems to be a pattern. Also, if your wife or girlfriend will sleep with your brother that has to be it for her too.
09-10-2015 06:34 AM
MattMatt
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

Divorce your wife, divorce your brother.
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09-10-2015 06:21 AM
Sowards Aron
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

You should leave her. I think that she doesn't love you anymore. How could she do such cruel thing to you??
09-10-2015 02:11 AM
larry.gray
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by bandit.45 View Post
Hut Locker this is a six year old zombie thread.

Please post your full story in a new thread so we can listen and help.
I'm pretty sure this has got to be a record for TAM.
09-09-2015 01:09 PM
bandit.45
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

Hut Locker this is a six year old zombie thread.

Please post your full story in a new thread so we can listen and help.
09-09-2015 01:04 PM
The hurt locker
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

I have been suffering immense pain over last 18 months since my wife revealed multiple partners and several long term sexual affairs.I only wish that she had NOT told me about her affair with my brother.The thoughts of her being with him 1000 times has caused me severe painful ruminations and intense grief thoughts that I'm surprised I haven't ended my life?My thoughts and prayers go out to anyone who has experienced this form of adultery.A word of caution be careful what you ask for?As part of our marriage restoration and healing and being honest I asked her many times about details and situations.I have learned that you don't want to hear about these details it will do nothing but cause more pain.
God Bless
03-24-2009 03:29 AM
Tim
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

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Originally Posted by AnthonyS1980 View Post
Let me tell ya... during my marriage, my wife cheated on me 2 times, made out with a couple guys, and I forgave her. All of that stuff happened at least seven years ago, so I thought we survived the affair, and we were a stronger couple for it. I thought my relationship with my wife was special and we could get through anything if we just kept the lines of communication open.
About six months ago, she started making drastic improvements in her life: she started going to school, began a new job in her field of study, lost a ton of weight, got a new wardrobe, fixed her credit, and got a new car.
Finally! My wife was taking responsibility for her own life! I was so proud of her!

Well... guess what?

She decided she's no longer in love with me, she met somebody at her new job, slept with him, and now she says she's in love with him after only 2 dates. These changes she made were in preparation of abandoning the marriage.
So before this happens to you, decide to move on, get your life together, then dump her. Please let me live vicariously through you! PLEASE!
This is exactly how i feel. I'm stuck. We have a kid and a nice house. I love my lifestyle that is attached to this marriage but I dont love her. I hate her guts I think. I'm making more mistakes as i speak. Please, dump her cheating ass. Let people like Anthony and I feel some sort of redemption.
03-23-2009 11:56 AM
sunflower
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

Why is it always someone thats close?
03-16-2009 04:31 PM
Gooshy
Re: My wife had an affair with my brother

you need to divorce with ur wife and move on. it will just keep happening over and over. sorry bud.. really sad to hear this.
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