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02-28-2012 01:59 AM
UCanTalk
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Me: I was codependent, insecure, narcissistic, manipulative and passive aggressive.
My wife just internalised everything and built up resentment, she was taught to "put up and shut up"
We colluded with each other .
I almost embarked on an EA but was pulled back from the brink after 2 weeks.
In my experience these things are never that black and white.
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02-27-2012 08:22 PM
sammy3
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Mine told me I didnt do anything...

~sammy
02-26-2012 08:39 PM
1dayatatime
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Had PPD after the birth of our child so I wasn't there for him even though it was he that wasn't there for me.
02-26-2012 08:30 PM
the guy
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

I disagree!
I'm not competing any more, I am what I am and thats all that I am.
02-26-2012 08:25 PM
bandit.45
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

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Originally Posted by bandit.45
Was this the brutha or Navajo Tattoo?

brutha the one she did three times or more
Its hard for us white boys to compete.
02-26-2012 08:17 PM
movin on
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

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Originally Posted by bandit.45 View Post
Was this the brutha or Navajo Tattoo?
brutha the one she did three times or more
02-26-2012 07:28 PM
SweetAndSour
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

[QUOTE=movin on;605487]
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Originally Posted by SweetAndSour View Post

Second time; She said it wasn't about sex and she felt like I was already gave up on her.
My opinion on second time was, by looking her affair partner and her inclination to rough sex and some other clues after the affair, she was looking for a well built, well hung fella to rock her body.

i got the same bs line and i got the same feeling about her second ?man
And all of here affair partners' penises (penii, penes) had the same size, shape and look as mine.

Did you say bul**** ?
02-26-2012 07:15 PM
bandit.45
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Quote:
Second time; She said it wasn't about sex and she felt like I was already gave up on her.
My opinion on second time was, by looking her affair partner and her inclination to rough sex and some other clues after the affair, she was looking for a well built, well hung fella to rock her body.

i got the same bs line and i got the same feeling about her second ?man
Was this the brutha or Navajo Tattoo?
02-26-2012 07:08 PM
movin on
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

[QUOTE=SweetAndSour;605462]

Second time; She said it wasn't about sex and she felt like I was already gave up on her.
My opinion on second time was, by looking her affair partner and her inclination to rough sex and some other clues after the affair, she was looking for a well built, well hung fella to rock her body.

i got the same bs line and i got the same feeling about her second ?man
02-26-2012 06:49 PM
SweetAndSour
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

I was too good for her and she kind'a wanted to let me free. Having a one night stand to accomplish that shows the depth of intelligence on her part. That was the first time she cheated.

Second time; She said it wasn't about sex and she felt like I was already gave up on her.

My opinion on second time was, by looking her affair partner and her inclination to rough sex and some other clues after the affair, she was looking for a well built, well hung fella to rock her body.

She got that but I still can't figure out why she left him and came back to me.
02-26-2012 06:13 PM
bandit.45
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Sheesh.....
02-26-2012 04:04 PM
movin on
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

[QUOTE=bandit.45;605270]Did you tell her that was the stupidest thing you ever heard out of her mouth?



sad thing is..it wasnt
02-26-2012 02:53 PM
bandit.45
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Originally Posted by movin on View Post
she did tell me she wasnt looking for men when she cheated...if that was true,she wouldnt have cheated.
Did you tell her that was the stupidest thing you ever heard out of her mouth?

Yukkk. Dude I still cannot believe you took her back.
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02-26-2012 02:38 PM
movin on
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

she did tell me she wasnt looking for men when she cheated...if that was true,she wouldnt have cheated.
02-26-2012 02:34 PM
movin on
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

i worked so she could be a stay at home mom,i let her put her bff before me,i was at home with her and the kids if i wasnt working,her father is an alcoholic who lived in the bars.so i stayed out of them except if we went together,i bailed out credit cards,left her go out with friends when she wanted,would take it when she yelled at me for reasons im not sure of.treated her much better than any of the husbands of her friends treated their wives...i guess i deserved it for being depressed for a year.i dont know how she put up with me
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