03-06-2010, 12:09 AM
Join Date: Dec 2009
| | UNhappily married
so this is about my almost 3 years marriage. one baby and another on the way. i read somewhere that a miserable and unhappy parent could never be a good parent. it's so true, i am married to a very caring and nice person but so many other negatives hide the good stuff. i've been married before to a very abusive husbund. i thank god for my present nice and loving husband for that he's no comparison to the 1st quick marriage.
ANYWAYS, i am so unhappy that it makes it so hard for me to do anything, be a good wife or a good mother, i moved from the city and i hate where we live now, i beg him everyday to move but he always makes up excuses coz his just too happy around his parents. what makes it worse is that he won't let me travel alone, and traveling together sometimes could be too expensive so i end up not even asking. my hubby works 12 hours shift but has 4 days off. and he also takes couple classes online. i work very part-time, take care of the baby and the house and him, go to school and being pregnant, he never really helps with anything around the house, not even the baby. he won't babysit for more than an hour or 2 but yet he cant live a day without her, he always calls me a lazy ass and never show me how much he appreciates my hard work. he's so lazy and won't do anything fun, during the weekend if we even get to go out it's to the mall, PLUS to his parents. he's so controlling and most of the time won't encourage me or agree with me about my ideas. i am not in heaven nor in hell, but at the same time not having my freedom and doing what i wanna do and living my life makes me miserable and wanna pack and leave. do you think my problems are enough to call it quits? or you think i just have some kinda post prego depression?