06-23-2010, 07:36 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Wife Wants Divorce After 20 years of Marriage
No, I mean, what have you changed in the way you operate day to day? Do you know what you do to Love Bust her? Do you know what her top Emotional Needs are? She went elsewhere because you were either LBing her or not meeting her ENs. THAT is what you can work on. It won't change things overnight, but if you can hold off the divorce long enough, she can see the changes. But you have to know HER better...what is she unhappy about? What did you do or not do? What can you change?
Remember, you don't HAVE to agree to the divorce. You can do your part to drag it out as long as possible, to give you time to win her back.
Have you snooped yet to see if she is calling, texting, or emailing another man? Odds are pretty good that she is. If so, you need to address THAT before you address your marriage.