Re: Just Wondering
He's not accepting responsibility for his part in this marriage. If you stay with him, it's highly likely you're going to shoulder the whole emotional burden of the entire marriage. I am simply unable to fathom how his talking to someone else on the internet is YOUR fault. He's too willing to blameshift here.
All this talking down to you..he doesn't see you as his equal in any sense of the word. Especially when it comes to love. It really sounds like you're way more into him than he is into you. And I'm really, really sorry for that.
It's really hard to get through to a man like this. They won't talk, and they won't listen to anything you have to say. They just don't CARE enough to. Is he some sort of narcissist? Makes me wonder. At any rate, are you willing to shoulder the entire responsibility of the relationship? He's going to keep giving you what you've been getting.
I am so sorry. I truly am.
The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. ***Maya Angelou
"But it's only on the brink that people find the will to change. Only at the precipice do we evolve" ***Professor Barnhardt to Klaatu