I need to make the best decision here...
Hello, thanks in advance for any wisdom and healthy advice.
Two nights ago my good friend's husband pushed me very hard out their front door! (they married @5-6 mo.ago)
Why? Im not sure, but he was arguing w/ my friend (his wife)
Literally I had just walked in a few seconds before he pushed me because i took her daughter w/ mine to the Mall and a sleepover. On way back we stop by to get her p.j's. I told the I'd wait in car and to be quick, time was @9:45pm. Well, i waited 5, 10, then 15min go by so I'm like what are they doing in there! I walk in, i see no one. I called their names twice and realize i hear LOUD arguing /cussing and the girls are standing at their bedroom door at top of stairs. I then said, " lets go girls!" My friends daughter said "I want to say goodnight to my ma". I said we'll call and said lets GO GIRLS NOW! (it kept getting louder in bedroom, i wanted kids out of that F up environment asap!) So they get downstairs and out door into my car. So I'm still at front door and say "Hey you guys!" "The girls have been in here hearing yall"! Well, the husband fly's out door & storms down fast like he's after ME! He's yelling and face all red, blood vessels on neck and eyes looked mad!
Calling me a *****, screaming how they never can argue cause kids always around & for me to shut my mouth! He's literally IN MY FACE & says "Get tha F outta my house"! Yelling it over and over again. I said, "what'd i do?" " Why are you screaming at me?" He's still saying "Get F out...he puts both hands on my shoulders to twist me around, pushes me toward door & he opens screen door and shoves me out, hard and it's a step down & I nearly lost my balance and almost went down the others. Both girls were teared up big time. I'm just in shock and get in car& drive home. I assured them all was ok w/me. I was extremely embarrassed that my daughter saw that! For me and my house, that doesn't fly. The KIDS emotional well being?!!!!! There was also her 16yr son at home in his room during all that. He wanted stay so he could "protect his Mom". Wow. Husband is big strong guy. Sorry this is so long! Its 7pm, 3rd day after. NO APOLOGY, nothing. I always got along well w/him too. What to do? Daughter is scared now of him, etc.... I am a GOOD friend to them, I've been there when ever needed me. I'm so hurt. Is it me? Maybe its no biggie? But i know better! (also, i heard@ temper but never this bad)!