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post #31 of 33 (permalink) Old 02-23-2016, 08:45 AM
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Re: 3 years later and showing signs of starting again.

Your STBX is unstable, she's not a good mom and there isn't a damn thing that you can do about that.

I wouldn't poison your kids against her, but rest assured, they will figure it out eventually and it will leave scars.

Your goal should be to protect your kids and protect yourself as best you can and if that means minimizing all contact with her then do it. It also means you get the best deal for you and for your kids in the D; money wise and visitation wise.

You fight for them and do whatever you have to do to achieve that goal.

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Re: 3 years later and showing signs of starting again.

Don't be like my mother.

She tried for years to make me have a "normal" relationship with my narcissistic assh0le of a father. There isn't a day that goes by without me resenting my mother. I'm 34 now and this is still wreaking havoc on me.

Cut as many ties as possible with that b1tch and let your children live the way they want to. You're not here to fix their relationship with that horrible woman.
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Re: 3 years later and showing signs of starting again.

Thanks for all the advice. I will do my best to cut her our of our lives. I'm waiting in the parking lot right now while they are at supervised visitation. Today she said she wasn't going to be here but I always show up just in case. She does everything she can to trick me into missing visitation. I got an email from the director over a month ago telling me not to come to visitation until March 6th. That is a Sunday and visitation is always on Saturdays. Luckily I didn't believe her and I have been showing up every time. She is already accusing me of keeping them from her almost a year and she is accusing me of screwing her over every chance I get. I expect that from her and my lawyer knows that isn't the situation. I give him weekly updates and sometimes daily updates. He has all my texts with her going back to 2014. He knows how she is and I'm sure her lawyer has told her we need to settle this. I realize she is going to do everything and anything to get her way.

It's going to be a long road but I'm not giving up on my children.

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