05-13-2011, 01:02 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Re: confused husband that misses his wife
For myself personally, I like a take charge kind of guy, who tells me exactly what he wants. I like a man who does not allow himself to be disrespected, but is not a jerk and puts me first.
It turns me on and makes me hot for my fiance if he is dominate, if he makes decisions, and organizes things. If he does a bit of demanding dirty talk during the day, that really helps me think about it, and get worked up and ready for sex. I like it if he really takes the time after work to notice me too, to look at me, compliment me and flirt with me.
I don't know about your wife, but I think a lot of women try and take charge of everything, and get critical of their husbands, but this just makes them feel more pressured, like they can't rely on anyone, and they have to decide everything themselves. What I really want and I think a lot of women want is a reliable man, who takes care of them and who is honest and trustworthy and who notices them (kind of like in the beginning of a relationship). I want a more old fashioned relationship, but one where I matter and my opinions count, however at the end of the day my man will make the decisions and let me know he's the boss. To me it's very sexy.