Re: Passive aggressive behavior?
If you check out my posts you will see some of the issues I've been dealing with. But that article is really good, it sums up everything nicely. Basically my husband does whatever he wants. He says one thing and does another and never acknowledges any wrong, he's never apologized to me ever. He says things like I love you so much and I respect you but he acts differently. He is manipulative. And he is so afraid of conflict that he will do anything to get out of it, like lie, deny, defend his behavior, change the subjects, blame me, and one of the big things he does is turn it around and he makes it about himself... I am such a horrible husband, I'm not good enough for you, I try so hard to make you happy but your never happy blah blah. Um no all I need you to do is acknowledge your wrong doings that's it, ur not horrible... But he still can't do it. I usually loose my temper bc these people make you go crazy and make you go insane, and then he gets mad bc I lost my temper and it's all about him again. It's really difficult to deal with. I have showed him articles on PAD, highlighted things gave him examples of how he is like this. He doesn't see it. Never will. He won't go to therapy. He is right and I am wrong. During s fight it is impossible or to keep him focused on one issue. When the evidence is mounting against him, he brings up somthing else. He will pull all stops before acknowledging any fault.
He is the victim. He's a master manipulator. He makes you feel like your insane bc you can never get through to him. We can argue and go round and round forever. It's exhausting.