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post #16 of 21 (permalink) Old 10-18-2016, 04:07 PM
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Re: Any ideas as to what may be wrong with my husband?

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The affair is over and there isn't another one.
You have NO CLUE what he's up to because he's still lying to you and hiding stuff. Give your head a shake here!! He isn't remorseful at ALL. You are his PLAN B - what do you think he's going to do when he meets another 'older woman'??? He's going to leave you again. Then when things don't work out with you, he'll be back. Again. And the cycle will repeat over and over unless YOU put a stop to it.

You have GOT to get away from this.........'man'. If you aren't willing to kick his a$$ out, read this list that farsidejunky posted again and DO IT.

Get tested for STD's.

Tell him that in order to consider reconciliation, you MUST have the following. NO EXCEPTIONS.
*Passwords to all of his devices and accounts
*No deleted texts or masking apps (KIK, Whatsapp, etc)
*He goes to both your parents and his and confesses what he has done, and ask for forgiveness
*He goes to individual counseling to identify why it is okay in his mind to cheat and lie
*He agrees to turn on location services on his phone so you can track his whereabouts
*He agrees that he broke this and it is therefore his to fix



People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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Why did you post this thread? Didn't you like the answers you got in your first thread?

Your husband is a PIECE OF SH!T. Get RID of him.

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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Why did I post this? Because this is the mental health forum and I'm wondering if anyone has seen behavior like this linked to a mental illness. That's why.

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Why did I post this? Because this is the mental health forum and I'm wondering if anyone has seen behavior like this linked to a mental illness. That's why.
Mental illness????? The guy's a TURD. There's no illness involved. You're just looking for an excuse to stay with him and continue being treated like dung.

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Mental illness????? The guy's a TURD. There's no illness involved. You're just looking for an excuse to stay with him and continue being treated like dung.
Can't really find an argument against this post.

I tried but I'm going to have to just nod in agreement.

The guys a turd and a few bottles of psych meds and a lifetime of therapy won't change that.
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