01-02-2012, 09:49 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Need help talking to dh
Originally Posted by EleGirl
The best thing you could do right now is to work on yourself. Go to individual counseling, get a job if you do not have one. If you need an education get started working on the education you need. Get busy.
I do individual counseling on how to deal with the home situation and how to build myself up. I have a more than full time job which is actually a sore point. He thinks I put in too many hours but I'm a one man show. I've worked my whole adult life. Then I come home and he critcizes, some is constructive, some is not. He is not a monster but very removed. It's just been getting worse for years.
Hopefully your husband will notice the new you. If not you will be ready to move on.
You wonder what example you are setting for you son. Make sure that the example you set is a good on.
Thank you for your feedback, I will think on it.