01-27-2012, 10:47 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Starship Enterprise
| | Re: When does it end?!
If your husband isn’t cheating on you yet, he soon will be.
He seems to undervalue commitment and fidelity and you will need to lay down some boundaries if your marriage is to work. No contact with any ex for any reason whatsoever. This should be off limits completely, especially given the fact that he had an EA (emotional affair) before marriage.
Really, you’re just having an issue with setting and enforcing boundaries and limits. There are things that are acceptable to you in the relationship and things that are deal breakers. Until he realizes that you will stand up and fight for your rights, he will not wake up.
Don’t conceive until your marriage has stabilized and let him know so.