03-11-2009, 12:07 PM
Join Date: Dec 2008
| | Re: Need great advice!
"he told me one time that his mother is the only women he will ever love.."
Honey, this is just creepy. I think it's great when a guy really loves his Mom, but saying something like that? And then showing through actions that it's pretty accurate? You're soooo young, believe me, you're only 19, there will be other men. And likely better ones. I'm sorry, but after all you've done for him, if he is still acting like a 12 year old boy, obsessed with paint ball and his Mommy.... I'd take a hike.
That's just my opinion. Most certainly Please Please don't marry this guy, till he grows up, a LOT! haha.... and definitely make sure you don't get pregnant by accident, as that Never fixes any relationship problem, it only makes it worse, and then there's an innocent child involved. I'm not saying you would do that, or that you are irresponsible, I'm just putting that in there.
I'd tell him to grow up, make me a priority, or take a hike. There's no reason for you to think he's the be all end all.... you're still a teenager, and will probably love a lot more deeply, before you ever find a man to marry.. Take life slowly!