06-29-2012, 03:30 PM
Join Date: May 2012
| | Scared
Today my husband and I were looking for something in the basement. All of a sudden he discovered some files missing from 1987. After getting over my amazement and him keeping something for that long! LOL he told me it was a file of evidence in his divorce in 87. Why keep that? I did not say that but we looked and also discovered two albums of missing baby pics of his two kids who are now adults.
We think she came in the house and took these things. She left him for another woman and this file had some evidence, letters etc. again I did not ask for details. We figure she came in here to destroy that file so the adult kids would never see it.
Their son just got married and she is all down at not being able to go to the wedding. It was a destination wedding and I did not even go as we could not afford tickets.
So we think her depression got bad and she came in here and took these things.
He got the locks changed even tho he said he had them changed since the divorce but I am still scared. You hear about so many things case in point the Bashara case in case no one knows about this they can google it. You hear on the news everyday about crap like this, Ex comes in and looses it and snaps.
Now with grandkids maybe on the horizon soon I am scared she will see me as taking over her role of grand mom something I would never do but still...her kids really do not have much to do with her, they are nice and polite but don't let her in their lives.
Guess I just need to vent.