07-26-2012, 10:45 AM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | Re: Don't know what to do.
Originally Posted by monson
I have done that in the past, she'll ask me if my meds are helping or not, she in a way blames it on "my problems" and well im just so frustated.....
This is exactly what I have been going through with my husband. I guess it's not just me, my husband thinks that my anxiety is my problem and only I have to work on it to fix it. If I bring up any form of conversation he thinks I'm attacking him or causing arguments for no reason. I actually just posted asking for help on how to bring up the subject because i now know where the problem is, i just need us both to realize it and work on it from there, and my fear is that he'll go back to thinking this is my problem, because I'm the one with the anxiety not him, and maybe i'm better off going back on my meds.
Going to therapy is the only way i have found that helps me understand that in a marriage if one of us has a problem, we BOTH have a problem. ask your wife this....if instead of anxiety you had cancer, would she leave it for you to fix and get well on your own?