Re: Are you down with the BPD?
When my wife and I went to counseling I told the counselor I thought she was bi-polar. Counselor said no, probably borderline. My wife has never had stable relationships, has cheated on every man she has been with. Has huge anxiety, wakes up nightly to panic attacks and can't breath, has grandious thoughts. She often relates our marriage to some old romantic movie. She was shot when she was 27 while bartending. Has a very sensitive personality and is easily offended. I think she also has symptoms of NPD. She never apoligizes. When I ask her apologize she comes back with, "I've already forgiven myself." She openly says, "It's all about me." With our relationship issues. She constantly insults me and gives me ultimatums. She threatens to leave me (she actaully did 2 months ago) if I don't meet all her demands.