Re: Are you down with the BPD?
My relationship with a BPD was the best and worst relationship I've ever had. She was amazing in every way, but when I got close, she seemed to get distant. When I tried to help for our mutual benefit, I was "controlling". I tolerated her moods and jabs because quite simply, I loved being around her... and I became quite good at talking down her up and down episodes. I thought it made me the perfect guy for her. But I always felt insecure... knowing she needed gobs of attention and every guy she met was a potential threat. I became paranoid, with reason... eventually confirming her cheating.
My own problems made things worse of course.
Oh man if I could just relive the fist couple months for the rest of the my life though... I've never fallen so hard for someone.