02-13-2013, 04:48 PM
Join Date: Feb 2013
| | my husband is making me depressed
Me and my husband have been married for almost two years, when we first got togather it was a young sexual relationship and we got pregnant right away. I did not want to be with him but he said he loved me and wanted to Marry me, i stayed with him for our child. While I was pregnant i started falling in love with him and trusted him with all my heart. We had our baby and then moved in togather, then we got married. After being married his mother told me he cheated on me while I was pregnant. We got in a fight one night and I got fed up with the way he treates me so I moved in with an x boy friend, nothing happened.. but my husband wanted me to come home and work on it, he said he would b better, he told me to come home and quit my job to be a stay at home mom like iv wanted to, so i moved back and soon after my son got hurt and I was lated off of my job for not coming in. We are not tight for money or nething now, i did not make allot and now theirs no daycare we are saving more money this way, no daycare gas or lunch and breakfast for me to pay, i was having to borrow money from my husband just to work. He never gives me money and im negative in my account now and im doing everything I can to get money to pay 45$ in my account because he want help me. My husband makes me feel like I'm usless and nothing is ever good enough. He says my cooking is bad ( even though noone else thinks so) he don't talk to me and when he does its with a bad attitude and he is saying something to put me down. Is like he loves to see me cry. At the grocery store im scared to ask for lunch foods because he gives me ugly looks because he's so tight with his money he doubt wasn't to buy stuff for me. He makes over 21$ an hr and we have only rent and basic bills. He has over 2000 in his savings. He goes through hobbies like crazy spending allot on him self but i cant even have 5$ i have anxiety and depression really bad. So I try not to fight and all day im by my self and at night im being put down by him or he wont talk to me. I try and tell him how he makes me feel but he just gets madder at me for saying something to him. Im so sad. Please give me some advice.
Last edited by sunshine87; 02-13-2013 at 05:35 PM.