08-11-2009, 08:55 AM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | Broken engagement
Ok so this has to been one of the worst times in my life. My fiancé of almost a year (been dating 4 years, tomorrow) broke our engagement last week. It was very unexpected on my part, mostly because we've had problems before, but never enough for something like this to happen. I mean we worried about the financial part of getting married, but that’s one thing.
Now she says that she is depressed, because everything is going wrong in her life (her friends going off to college, we are having relationship problems, and her other friend is getting sent off to a camp where they will have little to no contact, and she also isn't very happy with her job). I told her I would do anything to get our relationship back to the way it used to be, when we were both happy.
My biggest pet peeve with her is that she just doesn't speak up at all until its too late. Now she says that we need to hang out with our friends, and little to none with each other to make us realize why we love each other. I just cannot do this right now, this has been my only serious relationship, and its just not that easy for me, and even though she say she understands, she honestly can't, its killing me! Anybody got any ideas for things we can try to do? She says she is open to suggestions, I just haven't got any yet. Thanks!