Re: Parents won't understand
Thank you all,
I've tried talking to them saying i'm moving out by myself but the thing is i do not want to be by myself.
I don't like with my mom, just my sister and my dad, so i pretty much take care of things around like a mom. I've been paying the bills since i was 18 and I know how to take care of myself and my family too.
I want to move out beause it is something I've wanted since I was 16. I like to be independent, have my own things and remodeling my room and buying things for my parents house is not as rewarding. I want my place, my furniture, my pets, my own things. My fiance (a civil engineer with a good job) comes in the picture because he wants to get married next year, so it basically will come the day when we move out. He's also like a best friend so i want to share most of my time with him, travel together, cook, wake up together and go to work, come back home and share our daily stuff.
I know I'm 23 and young, but I think much older. I'm very organized, i don't party, smoke or drink, i like to stay home and read my books, i love cooking and having a healthy life style. I'm working my way to medical school btw. He's the same too, He's 28, buddhist, loves planting, a quiet lifestyle, he doesn't smoke/party or drink either, loves animals, hardworker and working on a second major, so why not?
He's basically everything my parents would like in a son in law, actually my dad likes him (my dad is an architect so they talk a lot) and I know he'll be ok wit my decision, but my mom, she doesn't like anybody. None of my friends likes my mom, sometimes i don't either, my dad divorced her for a reason, and my sister cried after they got divorced not to live with her. Sorry this is too long, but yeah, i guess i'll have to leave one day without their (mostly hers) blessing, which is kinda sad, because he is a good man.