11-07-2010, 07:54 PM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | Re: unfaithful spouse question.
Honestly, as a young man, I though that infidelity was unforgivable.
About 4 years ago, I began to think differently because I thought that my wife was cheating. (She was, but was able to convince me otherwise)
More than a year ago, I cheated and my wife found out and went back to her OM for a fling.
We reconciled, got counseling, became honest with each other, worked it out and now have a more loving and stronger marriage than we ever had.
The 100% trust is not there, maybe it never will be, but I honestly believe that she is no longer seeing him and I never want to see the OW again. We are allowed to check up on each other without question.
I love her more than my own life.