03-21-2011, 01:04 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Canada- Rocky Mountains
| | Where do you begin ?
H moved out on Tuesday , he is not sure where our marriage will go ! He is still talking to the OW that he had an EA with . I don't know what to believe cause he has lied so much to me about her.
He said in time he would like to try and do things to see if we can get through all this.
I mentioned to him the other night that if we did get through this I could not see us living together again right away cause there was so much damage and we really need to start over.
My problem is when I'm around him I'm so tense and closed up cause I'm scared of saying something that will make him mad.
I don't know how to have fun with him cause the past 3 months have been hell.
I suggested that we could go for drives, maybe supper, or maybe even just sit at my house or his and watch a movie or play a game !
I seriously have no idea , I'm not going to push him to do anything. I was thinking of waiting till the middle of April and then ask if he wanted to go to supper. We have to drive to the big city the end of April and I was thinking if we are starting to talk and spend time together maybe we could spend the night in the City !
DO you think I'm thinking to far ahead?
How did you all start over , where do you start ?