Re: One Sided "Reconciliation"- I am WW
I just realized I completely abandoned this thread. My apologies. I just finished graduate school a few months ago and have been slowly returning to normal life. My ex husband and I finalized the divorce a few months ago too. He has been moving from friend's houses to girlfriends' houses since we split and I have been living in another city. I don't know if I mentioned meeting a man shortly after I moved out of my ex's house, but that man and I have been dating since then. It's been almost a year and a half. The new guy is incredibly refreshing compared to men from my past. I actually was reminded of this thread because I was searching relationship advice and for information about attachment issues. Not surprisingly I still have a lot of emotional stuff to figure out, but I am lucky to have a boyfriend that is understanding and helps me rationalize things. I've also been doing thing to improve myself. I joined a local roller derby league, and have been making new friends and healthy habits. I rarely drink these days. My children are doing great as well. They get to see their dad every other weekend and holiday. Things have really sorted themselves out and I am pretty dang happy. I really appreciate everyone's advice and I feel bad about leaving this post un-updated. I'll probably be posting in the relationship advice threads soon because I still get confused about that from time to time. Haha.
-Again, thanks for all of the support and advice. You guys helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life.