Re: How long were you apart before reconciling?
In October 2010 my life changed. My marriage fell apart and I was an emotional wreck. My story is on this site My husband moved out into an apartment in December 2010. Throughout this time I was a mess, I could barely function. With the help of friends and my daughter I picked up the pieces and tried to figure things out. In Feb 2011 my husband and I decided that we really did love one another but we had some pretty big issues to resolve.
We have been living apart for almost 1 1/2 years, it's had it's good times and it's bad. I have grown alot and I have had time to reflect and see the mistakes that contributed to my marriage falling apart. I look back now and I realize that this is something I had to go through, I needed this to happen. I am a different person now, a stronger person and I am grateful for the people who have stood by me through my mess called life.
I am happy to report that my husband and I are starting " a new beginning". We just purchased a home together, a new start and we will be starting the living together process in June! I am excited, scared and a million other emotions.
Our relationship is much stronger now, he is my best friend. I look forward to many years with him, hopefully living together, maybe not.. who knows what the future holds. All I know is that I am going to live each day to the fullest
Love involves a peculiar unfathomable combination of understanding and misunderstanding... If my marriage falls apart im getting a porn star girlfriend..