Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: Husband is Making Little Effort
He is playing you big time, don't let him.
He is not remorseful, the OW probably didn't quite work out so you are his plan B. You are right to stick to your guns with regard to the things he needs to do to work on the marriage
In the meantime, work on you, you got this far without him. Get IC for yourself, explore your own needs, flaws, etc, become a better person for you.
I do not believe it did not go physical, that sounds like codswallop, don't fall for that. Being on a weekend away with a person of the opposite sex is enough for some people to divorce over.
You are being too soft and too desperate, show him you are moving on and if he isnt getting with the programme you will find someone who will.
If you act like you want him back he will not do anything to change, why should he?