Re: False Reconciliation without all the Facts
You wrote, I talked to my W about this last night. She is adamant that based on what she has studied/analyzed/learned, the WS should never provide details of the A, that it cannot help and will only hurt the chances of a successful R. She regrets that she ever told me.
From what I believe I understand about your recovery, you would have gotten a divorce had there not been relatively full disclosure. So does your wife feel that Given the choice of divorce or disclosure, she would choose divorce.