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post #31 of 37 (permalink) Old 03-26-2016, 10:35 AM Thread Starter
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When we know beter, we do better. You've taken a big step forward, A. It's time for you to improve yourself and you life.

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Thank you. I feel pain because I miss her but at the same time liberated. I gave her every chance to stay and did everything I could to save our marriage. I can say I tried and I did all I could.

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Update. To make matters worse in this situation I just found out she is pregnant. She said she is confident it isn't mine but I don't know, so I get to spend the next 7-8 months wondering and not being able to divorce her

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Update. To make matters worse in this situation I just found out she is pregnant. She said she is confident it isn't mine but I don't know, so I get to spend the next 7-8 months wondering and not being able to divorce her

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Meh, that's just more of a mess this woman got herself in.

Document! Document! Document! If you haven't, see a lawyer asap. Mens Divorce Forum and Child Custody Forum

It's also more evidence you should stop trying to win her back and start winning for yourself.

What's the plan? Exercise? Education? Better employment?

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Meh, that's just more of a mess this woman got herself in.

Document! Document! Document! If you haven't, see a lawyer asap. Mens Divorce Forum and Child Custody Forum

It's also more evidence you should stop trying to win her back and start winning for yourself.

What's the plan? Exercise? Education? Better employment?
I'm not worried about her. As far as myself I have a job I love but could use some exercise. Would love to start teaching Karate again like before I met her.

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I'd demand a paternity test. Just by blood, they can tell if you're the dad after week 10.
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I'm not worried about her. As far as myself I have a job I love but could use some exercise. Would love to start teaching Karate again like before I met her.

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Good! Get back to your gym/dojo. Get back to doing those things that made you happy and whole before. One step at a time. Then start including new things into your life too. You'll feel better and be better as you improve from where you were.

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Update. To make matters worse in this situation I just found out she is pregnant. She said she is confident it isn't mine but I don't know, so I get to spend the next 7-8 months wondering and not being able to divorce her

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Well now you know the OM wasn't there just to make you jealous.

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