Divorced for 6 weeks Ex Wife initiating contact although she has a new boyfriend
Hi all TAM Guys and Girls
Need a bit of advice , my divorce was finalised about 6 weeks ago , although since the ink has dried on my decree absolute , my wife has been getting in contact with me...
The day before i got the papers in the mail , she text me after saying that it was finalised ...I texted her back saying "ok" , she then replied ..."what just ok?"
Since then she has contacted me asking for help with her work assignments , and a couple of weeks ago text me out of the blue saying "haven't heard from you in a while , are you ok , are you Happy?" i replied "Yes I'm good thanks" I then proceeded to ask her out for a meal as it was her birthday coming up.
anyway , we had a nice meal and she said that she misses our marriage , but because of her trust issues with me , she couldn't agree with us getting back together ...plus she has a boyfriend , she has been seeing for about 3 months..
We have arranged to meet next week for an evening dog walk and coffee..but she is confusing me.
Bit of background for you , have been with her for 5 years married for 3.5 years , her trust issue was around me drinking (not excessively) , but to her it was ...plus when she filed for divorce around Sept 2015 , she was entering her menopause...
Now I love my Ex Wife to bits and never wanted to divorce ...however I want her back but she has this new guy ....I asked her if there was a chance as i have changed but she just wants to be friends at the moment and take it slowly and see where it leads us...any advice greatly appreciated, thanks
Last edited by Dusty72; 06-09-2016 at 02:25 PM.