Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: Need reconcialtion advice please
Since she was honest and came forward with her cheating, I would let it go.
Cheating is always wrong. Always.
You pushed her and she fell. Shame on you... shame on her.
I do not think she enjoyed the "sexual" freedom that she experienced with that supposed one night stand, ONS. I would call her physical affair, PA, a Revenge Affair, RA.
I say this because she came back to you. To her, YOUR worth SEEMS to be better than the average bar-crawling POSOM.
Why? She is not in the marriage for the sex. She is in it for the sharing and companionship. Barflies are flighty, flimsy, floozy partners.
Deal with it, or fold your cards and leave the Marriage Casino.
Keep an eye on her......for a long time.
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.