Re: Idk what's going on.
You seem, from what you have posted, to be maturing. You are beginning to see the importance of family. I am not sure she truly is. She sounds very spoiled and immature. I would also recommend that you move forward very slowly. It is important to remember that words have no meaning without actions to back them up. Anyone can say anything but the proof is in the doing.
She may actually be experiencing growth but I would want proof before committing to her again so, again, take it slow and look for signs of her words becoming reality or of them just being words and then act accordingly. I understand your desire to reunite your family but if you rush forward too quickly you may be repeating this all over again in the not to distant future.
Peace and long life