So, were you abusive? I kept waiting for you to provide more information, but you seem convinced you were the bad guy. I ask because you keep saying this:
We divorced because I put my wants and needs also my job. Before her and the girls. I was a straight up jerk all the time. Of course we are both at fault she wasn't perfect either. We discussed all this recently. I would chose to go to work over doing family activities together, and when I was home I wanted to be left alone. All things I learned were wrong now and she sees a change in me.
Yet, you said you were doing all of this:
I want the fairytale wife that cooks and cleans. I did all of the house work before cook clean laundry.
I'm just curious of the entire back story now. I'm curious if you have your hindsight 20/20 glasses on at the highest rose color spectrum.
No you are right. She even said I'm the only guy that can make her not want to be with that guy even though he cheated on her. Smh idk why
No way, sorry just no. What happens when you get mad? I applaud her honesty, but you should listen to what she told you.
How this red flag doesn't send you running I do not know. She told you this guy still has a place in heart, but you think things have changed. You just found out she cheated on you, is still in love with a cheater and you have fallen for the sweet nothings whispered in your ear.
I do have one question, was she cheating on her ex-boyfriend when you two had your various flings?