Re: Getting to point of reconciliation
Sadly, I can only really offer sympathy. Yes, your husband has received a hard shock that the world throws tough things at everybody and sometimes there is no path/fix to "perfect world/ignorant bliss"....if I was the type of person to excuse such things I would say this is a classic case of spiritual lesson to him that has to mature up, and so far he's not handling it well.
The 12hr day will be a challenge, unfortunately it's becoming more popular with lazy shiftwork/roster companies. Is he doing reduced days per week (most 12hr rosters come with alternating 3 days then 4 days to even out the weekly hours.
I'd say that an amount of dissociation and dealing with something he probably never considered as his life options will be what's causing the depressive-like symptoms you're observing.
since you're posting here, are we to assuming you're starting to struggle under the strain as well?
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