I was working 2 jobs and going to school trying to make a better future and he thought I didn't love him anymore. So he had an affair with someone he knew from high school that was a married stay at home Mom and free to come see him at lunch and talk to him on My Space and cell phones, etc.
What an assclown. He actually tried to use that ridiculous excuse for being a cheater? Sounds MORE like Romeo was taking advantage of the situation - you never being around because you were working your fingers to the bone - and he saw the opportunity to get himself some strange, is all. And then he flipped the script and tried to blame it all on YOU for neglecting the poor, poor victim.
I'll take Self-Entitled Douche Bags
for $500, Alex.
I found out when we got a $500 cell bill, since I paid all the bills I knew that wasn't right, so then I found out all the overages that we were charged and a number I didn't recognize. Poof! Marriage implosion.
PLEASE tell me you made him get a 2nd job to pay for his cell phone bill. How IRONIC that his feeble excuse was that because you were working or going to school and didn't have time for him, you "didn't love him anymore," but he sure didn't complain when your paychecks went into the bank, did he? Yeah, I'm betting not.
No wonder you kicked his hypocritical ass to the curb.
Since we divorced last year, I don't have access to his cell phone bill as he pays it himself and now also had a work phone that he carries. I want to believe he is being sincere, but something just seems off to me. Thoughts?
I guess what I don't understand is why you're bothering with him again. He's already shown
you exactly who he is. Didn't you believe him the first time?
And now you're possibly volunteering for MORE of his sh*t. I guess I just don't get it. I'd never invest in someone like him again. Ever.
As you said, "something just seems off." Never
ignore your gut. Ever.